This week Maggie has asked us a few Questions about how we achieve tranquility in life;
1 • Can you recall a particularly chaotic or stressful time in your life? How did you manage the stress?
There have been a few times in my life when I was feeling the stress of life tremendously. The first time was when I was a teenager. Life without a mother, and no sister to talk to, left me vulnerable to circumstances. At that age, I found that faith was my anchor. It helped me tremendously to strengthen my faith in Almighty Allah. This was what then always came to my rescue whenever I was under stress in life.
2 • Where is the one place in the world where all your troubles disappear – even if only for a moment?
On my prayer mat. As Muslims we pray 5 times a day, and during these prayers we ask Allah for guidance and forgiveness. This is such a invigorating experience that erases my stress at least for the time I’m praying.
3 • Do you like for other people to try and raise your spirits or do you prefer to deal with things on your own?
Usually, I deal with my issues myself. But if I need to vent or get advice on how to deal with certain situations, I ask my family or close friends for advice.
4 • What quote, song, book, or movie serves as an inspiration to you when things get tough?
“Things can always be worse”
This quote teaches me to be mindful and grateful for all that I have.
5 • Does solitude quiet your mind or do you need to pump up the volume?
Mostly meditation in solitude helps me navigate my issues. But there are times when a walk in nature with music helps too!
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Written in response to Tranquil Thursday # 6, hosted by Maggie
Today is my late Father’s birthday. If he were alive he would have turned 93!
I’m sure that most people have the highest regard and respect for their parents. My respect for my late father is even more so because he took up the responsibility of raising us three siblings when our mom passed away and was always there for us. He was a two-in-one parent, a mother, and a father in one.
He had a delightful sense of humor, I don’t remember being scolded by him for all the misadventures I had, and he would smile or laugh out loud at some of my bloopers. I got my love of reading and poetry from him. He loved to quote us verses from famous Urdu poets like Ghalib and Iqbal.
He always showed us how to be, by example. Kind and humble, polite, and ever-caring for everyone around him. He had complete faith in his religious beliefs and Almighty Allah. He was the reason that I too developed such a strong faith.
To remember him I want to share this quote;
I have always looked up to my dad. I wanted to be as kind, caring, and just as he was. I was very lucky to have a father like him.
In honor of International Women’s Day and Women’s History Month, let’s write a poem about a woman we admire. She can be a heroine from daily life; mother, spouse, friend or family. She can be someone whose work we’ve admired from afar. You can choose someone who’s passed on or still living. Key: a free verse poem up to 40 words, rated G.
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Women are the pivot around which our lives revolve
There isn’t one but many that influenced my life positively
Name one I cannot, list all would be impossible
My debt of gratitude to all these women who made me, me!
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