
Maggie’s questions are:
How do you manage stressors that are outside your control?
There’s no doubt that we all feel stress on a daily basis in life. Even when on a holiday, stress can strike unexpectedly. When stressed, I do vent if someone close to me is willing to listen. After that I think about the cause of the said stress and try to find a solution for it. If there’s no solution, or it’s not in my hands, I ask God for help. This gives me a feeling of calm and peace.
How do you tune out the noise of the crowds?
Crowds, unless they are massive, don’t bother me. I don’t dive in them but stay on the fringes. Too much noise can be headache inducing but if I don’t have anything to do there I move away.
What so you do when you do not know what to do?
My one and only go-to in such situations is to meditate, think and ask for help from the Almighty. Never has been an occasion that He has disappointed me. The problem may not be solved, but I get the feeling after praying for help, that I’ve done my best and the rest is in His Hands. The plan of God is different from ours and so are His timings. Whatever happens will be the best thing to happen, though we may not see it for ages.
In response to Tranquil Thursday # 9, hosted by Maggie
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I am with you on meditating and taking a step back to look at the bigger picture. Helps a great deal to take time to focus.
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Yes, it works perfectly for me. But then we all have different approaches towards life.
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Yes, true.
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👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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Meditation goes a long way in rehearsing what to be done but I listen to music most of the time to Clear my mind and stop thinking for a while and then I start again by checking what I’m missing. I also like to pray, inform God of my troubles and hope I get them cleared as soon as possible.
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I agree with you Phil. Asking for help from God has always been a source of solace for me
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I like these words. Thank you for sharing. There is so much help available.
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Thank you so much
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Loved your answers, a good advice lies there!😊
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Thanks Vidah. 💖
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The whole idea of it’s happening for a reason, I may not know why right now but someday I’ll look back and it will all make sense.
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Sometimes it’s hard to believe. But during various phases of my own life, I’ve found this to be true. But we need to believe in a higher power- God if we believe in this ideology.
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Well said, Sadje. 🌹
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Thanks Nancy
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Faith has always helped when all else to fail.
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I meant to say when all else failed 🙂
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I know!
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Me too. 💖
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Your answers tie in to my way of thinking too, Sadje. Thanks for sharing. 💗
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My pleasure Lauren. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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My father always said that when God answers our prayers, sometimes the answer is no. So eti es no is the best answer for our lives.
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We are given what we need and not necessarily what we want.
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So true.
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😍
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Love your responses, Sadje….especially your last one regarding giving the solution to God 💞💞💞
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Thanks Dawn! When you believe in a higher power, than why not leave things to Him!
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Because I’m a control freak over some things? lol
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We really can’t control everything
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Crowds don’t bother me too bad, unless they are full of pushy people. However, being a short person – people can lose my easily in a crowd.
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I never thought of that happening, getting lost in a crowd. 😅
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