Anyway, it’s just two more weeks to go till the end of 2022, and it’s now the right time to ask this question; Do you make plans/ resolutions for the new year?
I gave up this futile exercise years ago, at least 20. I could never follow through on my resolutions and always felt that sense of disappointment when by the time January ended, I had completely lost track of them.
So I decided not to put myself through this torture again and for the last several years, I have had short-term goals. Though these were seldom fulfilled, I didn’t suffer that sense of failure if I didn’t meet them. I’d then make more short-term goals for myself.
See it’s a clever way of disappointing oneself. Anyway, what is your modus operandi?

Your prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “start your post or one paragraph with the word ‘anyway.’” Bonus points if you start your post with “anyway” and regular points if you use it in a paragraph somewhere else in your post. Enjoy!
Written in response to Linda’s SoCS- Anyway
#Keepitalive
#SoCS
Sadje anyway, I agree with trying to keep New Year’s resolutions. I stopped that about 10 years ago and my motto is, ” I can only be a better person than I was last year.” My cousin Bill posted this on his Facebook page. On December 31st, write on post it notes write what you would like to accomplish for the year that is about to begin. Place them in a jar and do not look at them until the following New Year’s Eve. Anyway, I am very curious to see how this year panned out.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I hope it’s a better year.
LikeLike
Yes, indeed.
LikeLiked by 1 person
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
LikeLike
Yes, absolutely right Sadje. Its the right time to make changes in one’s life…whenever the person decides to begin the change. Personal change is not a date or time of year but when it feels right for each person.
LikeLiked by 3 people
Oh yes, absolutely right.
LikeLiked by 1 person
😊👍
LikeLiked by 1 person
😎
LikeLiked by 1 person
It was a fun thing to do when I was a kid, but we never even meant to keep them, so we’d make up lots of silly things. 🙂 I never did any serious resolutions. I knew I wouldn’t do them anyway.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Yes, I was never able to fulfill any of my resolutions.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Short term goals are the best Sadje👍personally I’ve never made any new years resolutions in the past.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Sorry… Hit the send button by mistake😁
Personally I’ve never made any new years resolutions in the past but I’ve thought to go for one this year…. One day at a time… 🙏
LikeLiked by 1 person
One day at a time is a good goal. All the best my friend
LikeLiked by 1 person
Good for you Destiny. It’s a waste of time and effort
LikeLiked by 1 person
I like to set goals at the beginning of the year. Last year I had a few ~ met some, didn’t meet others. I will be trying again! 😀
LikeLiked by 1 person
Goals are better, and should be manageable too. Thanks for sharing
LikeLike
After family visiting over the holidays and a planned game night on New Year’s Eve, my only plan is to breathe and relax for a few days. After that, I put my bike on a trainer and get back to some weight training so that I don’t fall into the winter doldrums. Not a resolution, but simply what I need for physical and emotional health.
LikeLiked by 1 person
That’s a good regimen. All the best for the holidays 💖
LikeLiked by 1 person
I have never made New Year’s resolutions. I agree that those are promises we can’t always keep. Lots of pressure.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Very true. Better do things your own way at your own pace.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am just like you, Sadje. I stopped making those New Years resolutions a long time ago. Everyday is a good day to make achievable and well-intentioned goals. 😁
LikeLiked by 1 person
Absolutely right my friend
LikeLiked by 1 person
Indeed. 😁👍👍
LikeLiked by 1 person
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
LikeLiked by 1 person
A very topical post !
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks Tanya.
LikeLiked by 1 person
🥰
LikeLiked by 1 person
❤️💖
LikeLiked by 1 person
I don’t make any New Year resolutions, because I have never stuck with any.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Same here. So why waste time and energy.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Love these Sadje! I set intentions but not firm resolutions because life has another plan often.. 🥰
LikeLiked by 1 person
Way too often and completely different from ours
LikeLiked by 1 person
You’re so right! ❣️
LikeLiked by 1 person
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
LikeLiked by 1 person
Resolutions are good . I think the mere thought of starting on New Year gives the jitters and we often fail. So any day you start a new resolution it is a new day and new year for us.🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
You’re absolutely spot on. Any day at any time of the year works fine, if we mean it. Thanks
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ve given up doing so, but I do try to focus on better a more compassionate and better person each year
LikeLiked by 1 person
And you are a kind and compassionate person Beth. Thank you so much for sharing
LikeLiked by 1 person
ahahahaha reminded me when i was kid and after a day or two, you forget about the list. 😄
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh yes, we never took them seriously as kids.
LikeLike
just something to do when it’s New Year, i guess, like a tradition. 😊❤️😄
LikeLiked by 1 person
A tradition both to make them and break them
LikeLike
Awesome article. This problem affects everybody.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks
LikeLike
I don’t do resolutions, but I do have find a new job on the list. I need to work closer to home in case they take my licence off me
LikeLiked by 1 person
Best of luck with the new job! I hope you enjoyed your vacations?
LikeLiked by 1 person
I like to set intentions…but not concrete ones, if that makes sense. That way I don’t look back at the year and wonder where it all went, and have nothing but existing to show for it. 💞
LikeLiked by 1 person
Good way to deal with this tradition. Thanks Dawn
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love to celebrate the New year
LikeLiked by 1 person
That’s cool.
LikeLike
Welcome
LikeLiked by 1 person
👍🏼
LikeLike
I don’t think I’ve ever been into making resolutions. I’d always forget them and decide the heck with it.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I think it’s the same with most people.
LikeLiked by 1 person