
Invariably, every day I get at least one message in my comments from new bloggers to follow them.
I want to make this clear to all these people, whose comments about following them end in trash folder, that I don’t/ won’t follow random people asking me to do so.
So please don’t waste your time and energy by leaving these comments. If you want people to read/ follow your blog, write good content, interact with fellow bloggers and be patient.
#Keepitalive
#Blogging
I suspect they’re mainly bots.
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Some aren’t. I’m hoping to convince them
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Hey sadje I didn’t ask you to follow me…..it’s just that I liked ur posts so I m following you…
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Thanks for that. These people don’t even follow, just post links to their posts on my blog.
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you think these people read your blog? 🤣
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my thought too – they’ll keep on doing it, of course
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Well I had to make an effort 👍🏼
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No but if I anchor this post to the top of the blog they might.
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I do the same. They usually don’t say anything about my content. They just want to promote their own.
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Yes. And that’s very irritating
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I sometimes check out folks who ask for a follow – if done politely. However, straight into trash go those pseudo-comments that consist of just a link to their latest post – no other words, just their blog post link! Pahh
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if somebody shares a link to a poem they wrote, and asks me nicely to check it out, I may do that – but only if they’re also responding to my blog post in some way.
~David
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Yes, at least that is a genuine interaction. 🙂
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Not if that’s the only thing they wrote
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I take your point 😉
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Yes exactly.
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Same here. Thanks for sharing
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You are welcome!
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I have had a few people make requests like that for me to follow them also, but it hasn’t happened in a while. I had this one site tell me that they wanted to give me administrative rights to write posts on their site, but I declined.
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Same here. I already follow a lot of blogs.
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Yes! Agreed!!!
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Honey Sadje, that is a drop-the-mic statement. I have gotten such request too and like you noted, write good content, you won’t have to ask people to follow you! 🤜🏼🤛🏼
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Absolutely right. I’d be surprised if anyone followed such requests
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Really girlfriend! 😊
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I agree with you. It takes time, commenting and reading other people’s blogs — and developing interesting content. I keep getting requests from companies to include a guest blog.
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Absolutely right EA. A guest blog needs lot of commitment and if they are paying then it’s okay I guess
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I’ve passed each time.
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I would too.
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Ohhh wow
What a great post 😁
What is your criteria to follow anyone? 🙂
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I’d follow people who interact with me, write content that’s appealing to me and if anyone is doing the WDYS prompt
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Ohhh sounds good 😊
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Thanks!
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I try to educate them but now mostly too busy for that!!💕 agreed!
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That’s what I’m trying too.
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Wow. That’s quite a stern warning ⚠️
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I hope it works.
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I feel the same way!
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You can share my post too
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Same!
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My thoughts exactly! Some don’t even read your content or comment and just leave a link to their blog!!!
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Yes, and they are so irritating
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I automatically put those in spam as they most likely are.
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Yes they are but some of them are real people looking for followers
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I, personally, would not do that if I’m looking for followers. I would visit the blogger’s website and read and interact with the blogger and if they wants to follow me, that’s fine and if they don’t, that’s also fine.
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That is the right way to do it.
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Ditto!
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Bravo. Totally agree
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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Just ignore them Sadje, as Mr Bump said above, they are not reading your content, the majority will be programmed bots and to me they are as annoying as the Likemonli Cult but you’ll not be able to stop them as they are legion and many!
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I had to try as they are very irritating
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Yes of course they are, l used to get maybe 300 hundred a month on the Guy blog, l get a couple a week now and they end up in trash or spam.
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Mine too.
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Good advice. I have similar comments which end up in my spam folder so they are deleted. I also get annoyed with people who follow me and their sites do not exist or it’s an advert to set up a new one. They too are deleted.
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Thanks Di. We can but try to warn them
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They don’t listen though. I had two today.
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😅
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I totally get this; one must put in the time, be dedicated, and work hard in anything we choose to do.
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Absolutely right.
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I don’t remember getting asked to follow a new blog or any blog for that matter. I likely have and just don’t remember. I do get stuff that just goes automatically into my spam folder.
With all this talk, I want someone to ask me to follow their blog, so I can say no.
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Haha! I will do so.
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hahaha.
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😂😂😂
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Good 👍
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Thanks Aana
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I did do that at one point, but then I started to realise they were not interacting with my blog. It’s really rude quiet honestly, lol
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Very right.
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That down there is a really good piece of advice. 👏 It’s the best way to go about blogging
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Indeed very true. Thanks Lamittan
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Yes, and you’re most welcome, dear.
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I have made the same statement on my about page. I follow few and am picky about who follows me. No business especially for unreateded things, like vacation spots, or health products.
But not everyone reads that page… Just keep deleting those comments.
I always have to approve new commentors first! Keep yourself sane!! 💕
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Thanks Jules. I had to try. The irony was that I received a comment to follow someone on this post. 🤣😂
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Remember those odd comments I was getting from an old post over two years ago to visit nasty sites… Thankfully they finally stopped. Not sure if it was a WP fix – or they just gave up.
Some of those kinds of comments though I think are just ‘Bot’ generated and so there really isn’t anyone to read at all. Odd that.
(Delete, delete, delete.)
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Yup, deleting them is the answer
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🙂
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Funny – I got a comment that went straight to spam from some marketing place on a very old post… I don’t know why they expected a response when they started with… “I didn’t like…” Twits. …Delete!
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Here we can find all sorts of weirdos
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🤨 One does wonder why they even bother…
Though when I first started blogging I thought I had to visit every like… I don’t do that now. I return comments. And ones that aren’t appropriate get trashed.
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Good policy. I do the same. I interact with those who are here reading and commenting on my blog. And those who write for my prompt as it’s easier to find them via the reader.
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We do what works for us. I’ve always said each owner of a blog has the right to do as they wish. Even the twit marketing blogs who you couldn’t get back to if you wanted to… who leave stupid comments (one that I just deleted!).
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That’s true
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🙂
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Well said Sadje, I too don’t like it when people comment in such a manner, there is no need to poke a person to follow you, be patient and yes interact with them by leaving great comments such as “This was a beautiful post” 🙏🙏
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Exactly right Mthobisi. Thanks
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Well said. Some people will never learn
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Unfortunately that is true.
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Yes 😢
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❤️
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It’s quite annoying. Some random person asks for a follow and 90% of the time, doesn’t read your posts.
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Exactly right
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Wow I’m sorry you are going through that! I am also fairly new to blogging and still learning but I’ve never thought people would go to other people’s blog to promote their own!
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Well this post alone received many such comments!
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Great
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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The routine spam diaries. Alas!!
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Indeed
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💕
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The worst ones are after a hardly a few interactions get straight to money matters 😅
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Most of them are selling stuff, which I think no one needs or buys.
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Very true.
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😅
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I too find that very annoying. You have to put forth more effort than just an ask to get my attention. I do not follow blindly.
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Absolutely right. That’s how it should be
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Nice one
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Thanks
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You are welcomed
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🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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For for follow is so 2010 🙅♀️
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Any good bloggers who would like to follow my wonderful blog? 😃
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