For those brave people suffering from chronic pain

Have you experienced chronic pain?
It feels as if it’s the only thing in your life
You cannot think or feel anything beyond pain
What is funny or sweet, it all lose their meaning
When your body is demanding constant attention
Words of sympathy, gestures of empathy
Often go unnoticed or unappreciated
For the mind is constantly struggling with pain
Anyone who knows a sufferer of chronic pain
Should be very understanding and forgiving
For when we ourselves are faced with this challenge
We truly know what they are really going through
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These last 3-4 months have thought me a valuable lesson. Pain is one of the feelings that can only be appreciated by the sufferers and others can only guess at the mental state of the one experiencing it. Be kind, be understanding and most of all generous for if they speak harsh words, they don’t mean it.
#Keepitalive
#Awareness
Kindness, sympathy, and understanding towards those in pain, goes a long way. Thanks for sharing, Sadje.💕
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Thank you Grace.
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My pleasure 💕
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We never know until we’re there … compassion and empathy are always appreciated. Glad you are out of yours.. xo ❤️
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Thank you Cindy! A firsthand experience teaches us a lot.
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Sorry you had to suffer too 😞
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Thanks Paula. I had a taste of what chronic pain feels like. Even now the foot can give me trouble when I’m not careful.
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Sorry you’re suffering, Sadje. Your words and message are spot on. Sending love and hugs 🤗💕🙂
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Thanks a lot Harmony. I’m past that pain now but it was very much there after my surgery.
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So sorry for your pain. Sending you big big hugs. 💕💕
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Thanks a lot Shanti.
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Do tell someone about it! Never keep it to yourself, it is not healthy
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Thanks Luna. I’m past that painful time, which was a byproduct of my foot surgery.
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I don’t do pain well and pray it never becomes a permanent resident in my body. I really don’t know how those that have it manage it so well. I admire them.
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Some people have low threshold for pain. I hope you never have to experience chronic pain
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Well said Sadje. Pain is so distracting a burden.
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It is, and when it overwhelms us, we lose the capacity to appreciate others things.
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Yes, so true!
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Listening and being there for others can offer hope that will give them the courage to keep going 🥹💝
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Absolutely right my friend
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Well said Sadje. You’re so right in what you said, only another sufferer of chronic pain or chronic health conditions can relate to what you’re experiencing. I think we also need to show ourselves that compassion and support too
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Very true Brenda. We need to show ourselves kindness too. Thanks
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Well said, Sadje.
I like, ” For when we ourselves are faced with this challenge
We truly know what they are really going through”
Like my daughter put it when someone made light of what she was going through, ” only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches. ”
Stay blessed my friend.
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Thank you so much Chaya. Indeed, that the truth.
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So sorry for your pain. Hugs my friend ❤️
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Thanks a lot my friend 🙏🏼
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I completely agree, Sadje. Empathy and compassion are so important.
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Yes, they really are. Thanks
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Indeed. Welcome, always.
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Wise words Sadje, well said! Physical pain can cause a person to be abnormally Agitated and irksome. We should be more understanding and considerate! 😊❤️🤗👍
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Indeed my friend. Thank you
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You’re welcome 👍😁😊
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❤️❤️❤️
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turning pain into beautiful art, you are a true artist and a warrior, Sadje. 👏👏❤️
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Many thanks Audrine 😍
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Yup, kindness and sympathy are the most needed things at this time.💫⭐
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Absolutely right Laiba. Thanks
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I don’t have chronic pain…yet but my mom has been having some. It pains me seeing her in pain as all I can do is watch and try to comfort her with some hugs
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I hope she gets better Maria. Yes, others can comfort us but can’t take away the pain.
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Thanks Sadje. You take it easy too.
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Thanks sweet friend
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I can’t imagine and I’m sure I would be horrible to be around if I had such affliction! I’m sorry for those who do.
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So am I Brandon. This taught me a lesson. I hope you don’t have to face it.
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It is hard to imagine the patience and fortitude one must have to endure chronic pain.
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Very right my friend.
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So true, dear.
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Indeed.
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Well said my friend!
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I know you’d understand. Thanks
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You’re welcome.
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I consider myself a strong person, but when pain enters, and it’s constant, a good cry or two helps sometimes. Sorry that you are dealing with pain, Sadje! ((hugs))
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Thanks Susi. As the saying goes, what doesn’t kills you makes you stronger ( though I feel it’s a bit too excessive) I do feel it builds character.
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You’re welcome! Yes, overcoming struggles definitely can do that.
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Yep. Pain is me. I am in pain 90% of the time. How is your foot?
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I’m so sorry my friend as pain as a constant companion is not so welcome. My foot is on the mend but this was a long journey.
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Thanks. Glad your foot is better. Wishing you a full recovery.
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Thanks a lot
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I have been living with a chronic disease since 1995. It is the hardest thing I have to deal with. I am fortunate that I have a great support system.
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That’s really good to have a support system around you.
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