This week Fandango provocatively asks;
If money were no object and you could live anywhere in the world, where would you want to go and why?
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Choosing where we live has to be viewed through a few considerations;
•Comfort
•Familiarity
•Money
•Social interactions
I am very comfortable in my own home, in the city I was born and uprooting myself at this age to live someplace else is not an appealing prospect.
I am familiar with my surroundings here, I know where to go if I want to buy something, watch a movie, or go just for a long drive with music blaring from my car speakers.
With the world economy in the state it is, money is tight everywhere, but living in Pakistan, life is not that expensive even now. If I compare prices in the USA to those in Pakistan, except the petrol/ gas prices, we still are way cheaper here. Our way of cooking is also such that we can eat more in less money.
The most important thing at my stage of life is social interaction with family and friends. And for all the C money in the world, I wouldn’t want to go and live in a place where my family isn’t around me or I cannot drop in a friend’s house for chitchat! This I think is a factor which would decide where I live.
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Written in response to FPQ # 176, hosted by Fandango
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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I totally agree Sadje. The connections with family are important.
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Very much so, especially as we grow older and making new connections isn’t all that easy.
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True indeed.
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Nice
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Thanks Ajay
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Welcome mam
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Where are you from mam??
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Pakistan. And you’re from India?
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Yes
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I get that completely, Sadje. I sometimes contemplate moving closer to my mom, and may even do that in the future. We will see.
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Yes, family is important!
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Indeed, and agreed!
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💖💞
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Agree. My fantasy home was within driving distance of both daughters 💕
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That’s super convenient. 👍🏼
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If I could I would live spring and summer in the state where I grew up and fall and winter where I live now.
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That would be the best of both worlds!
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Yes, indeed😸
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So lovely Sadje.. less is more and location to family is really important especially as they age! 💖
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Exactly right my friend
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I like your answers, Sadje. They show your heart.
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Thanks a lot Rebecca. As they say, home is where heart is.
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I agree one hundred percent, Sadje.
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Thanks a lot Judy.
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Although, in the same country (England); A few years ago, I moved, with my husband and kids, to another county in england, about three hours in the car from where we used to live, and from our extended family, I love my new surroundings. Before I lived in a medium sized town, not that far from London, it was overpopulated, there was lots of crime, and now I live in a lovely cottage in the middle of a nature reserve in the countryside, so that probably has something to do with it. Perhaps if my children were older I’d feel differently, but lucky for me, it’s worked out well, also, some of my extended family members have since moved here too!
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That’s really nice. Having a peaceful environment is essential too. And the added bonus of having all your kids with you.
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Absolutely, my eldest wasn’t so keen at first, but she’s come round to it.
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Kids often do. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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There is something to be said for staying put, especially when you have built a loving and cozy life for yourself right where you are.
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Indeed, that’s true Li. Thanks
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You’re welcome, Sadje. I feel the same about where I live (but I wouldn’t mind maybe a small vacation home in Spain or South America 🙂
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Oh yes, that wouldn’t come amiss at all. ❤️
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We moved from San Francisco, which we loved, to the East Bay (only about 35 miles east). It’s a different climate and a different life here, but we moved to be closer to our grandchildren, and that made it worthwhile.
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Yes, being close to family makes it worth the effort and we tolerate the disadvantages too. Thanks
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There are so many factors that govern our choice. But once we put our roots, it is not easy to uproot and settle elsewhere. But, then again, circumstances govern our choice.
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Yup, very true. The only thing that would make me want to move at this stage of life is if one of my kids need me. Otherwise staying here despite the state of government and economy would be my choice.
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It’s the same here.
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In concordance ❤️❤️❤️
Family ❣️
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I’m basically in a similar situation of thinking where to set down roots, after my mother finally gets a much-needed surgery and recovers from it. But if I could choose, I’d have to say somewhere in a forested environment and near a tight-knit community. A nice, friendly place.
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A nice friendly community is ideal. I hope you find a place with all that you desire.
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Thank you. I’ll keep looking. ^_^
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All the best
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Being close to family and friends is indeed important
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I agree, specially as one grows older
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Right you are
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So true! Need my family and friends!
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Thanks Joy! Me too
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💕💕
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❤️
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I would go to Turkey and live there because I like this country so much❤
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Turkey is a beautiful place and the people are very nice too. But there is the language barrier.
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Yup..
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I agree Sadje. Having loved ones is all that matter.
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Exactly right! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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You are the rare person who knows contentment when they have it, and celebrates it publicly as a reminder to all that bigger and newer are not necessarily better. We here in America, in particular, need this understanding to come into clearer focus. Great post!
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Thank you so much Ana! You’re right that contentment makes one appreciate what we already have and not hanker after what could be.
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