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Have you heard the word, “ Alarmist”?
I’ve met a few of them and surprisingly, or perhaps not, they are related. Perhaps it runs in their genes!
They create storms in teacups and mountains out of molehills. The term, “what if” looms large in their thinking and every sort of negative scenario becomes not only possible but also imminent in their minds. This happens especially in the middle of the night when they consider it their duty to wake people sleeping and ask them worriedly, what if this happens or what if that happens?
You might have guessed that I’m talking about my husband and someone closely related to him.
I tell him all the time to relax and wait to see if that situation actually develops. And more often than not, it never does.
Written for;Weekly Prompts Wednesday Challenge – Alarms, and Weekend Challenge- Middle, hosted by Sue W and GC
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I with you on team relax and see
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A very sensible approach
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I’m with you all the way. Thank you for linking to both our challenges; great way of doing it Sadje, 🙂
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Thanks a lot Sue.
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This reminds me of a Mark Twain quote: “Worry is like paying a debt you don’t owe.”
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Absolutely right! Thanks
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My pleasure.
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Love that quote. Great post, Sadje. KL ❤️
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Thanks a lot KL
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I am a worrier, so I can relate. However, I stay up and worry and don’t wake up my husband.
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Thanks for sharing EA! My husband finds it hard to sleep if something is bothering him and keeps me awake too.
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I don’t intentionally wake up my husband, but my tossing and turning, getting in and out of bed does!
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That sounds like what my husband does too. 😛
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Hahaha ! I have also met many😂
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They need constant reassurances
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Indeed Sadje.
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Yup😅
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I am not much of a worrier. Sometimes it’ll creep up on me, but I can shut it down quickly.
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That’s good Patricia! Worrying never helps anyway.
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conspire
sweat and yet
country goin ta hell
do tell
whopee~
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Oh no!
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Ah, I know a couple of these folks. I like your advice. Practical, makes perfect sense. Let’s not get ahead of events before they unfold.
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Absolutely right. Thanks Jeff
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You’re welcome, my friend. Always.
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Worrying is definitely pointless. I used to worry about everything, and my nerves were a wreck for no reason.
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Very true Belladonna.
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I am an alarmist, and hate it. Seriously, we alarmists have a literal hell in our heads. Sigh.
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I am quite the alarmist myself! I keep thinking of ‘what if’! Trying to get better at it but the head keeps wandering and wondering.
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I think you can train yourself to relax more
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I hope you can train your mind to relax.
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Lol Sadje! I didn’t realise you are talking about your husband! 😂
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Thanks Punam! He is becoming more of a worrier with time. 😛🤣
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You are welcome. Age does that. 😂😂
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Yes, thankfully.
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Is it better to be a general alarmist or a hypochondriac? I think perhaps one good thing about memory loss issues is that I hear less about medical issues that aren’t real…from a particular relative.
I think the only true alarmists can be those who are in the midst of a war. I saw an image the other day of a young woman dressed for her graduation or prom from the Ukraine – taken in front of ruins.
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Both situations are tragic.
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…yes…
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My little sis(not so little now) broke many an innocent teacup with these storms, but she met someone who calmed her down like none of us could.
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The power of love?
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Looks like it.
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Cool.
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You see, people who worry are saving us, even if we don’t know it. Because if you worry about it, it won’t happen. The things that happen are always the things you DIDN’T worry about. He’s saving you. Really 😀
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Hahaha! That’s the Murphy’s law in its full splendor. I should thank him I guess for ha worries about everything. 😂😎
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