I am writing to express my opinion, share my experiences and to maybe provide some insight. My blog is addressing women at 50 ( but men are welcome to read my posts) ,their issues and the questions that come up at this stage in life. I don’t aim to teach, but to learn together.
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65 thoughts on “Don’t worry what others think!”
True indeed Sadje. Thank you for the inspiring words. Blessings to you.
Maybe it’s a reflection of ourselves and how much time we waster thinking about what others are doing. And we think that they’re doing the same. Mmm…..I will keep this in mind!
People do not think about ourselves. They don’t want to think, they just want to bother us. They just want to spoil our mood and mental peace with their bitter words.
They just want to us that we put our steps backward.
So don’t worry about people they are just people so join the company of people who provide love, affection, and sincerity to your decisions and always are good advisers.
So true. The conundrum is that the more i think about people, the more i think they think/talk about me. Haha. I’ve learn to create that space in my mind for other things 🙂
Oh, this is true. It’s certainly good to worry less about people’s talks and focus. They might even not be talking about us when we, on the other hand and just as you’ve pointed out, keep thinking they do. Amazing. 👏
I get wrapped up in thinking about someone and then assume they think of me as often as I think of them. I it an important lesson to learn that everyone is not like you are.
Keep it alive 
True indeed Sadje. Thank you for the inspiring words. Blessings to you.
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Thank you so much my dear
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(bouquets)
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this quickly puts it all in perspective
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Absolutely! A reminder for us all
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Wise words!
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Thanks Komaljeet
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Maybe it’s a reflection of ourselves and how much time we waster thinking about what others are doing. And we think that they’re doing the same. Mmm…..I will keep this in mind!
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It goes both ways! Thanks
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true…I think about other people (in general) maybe 1/5 of the time..? 😎😎
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Perhaps, or even less.
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So true. Some kind of spotlight effect which I’m guilty of.
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I used to do it but not anymore.
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Words of wisdom ~ so true ~ excellent one liner, Sadje. 🙂
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Thanks a lot June.
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People do not think about ourselves. They don’t want to think, they just want to bother us. They just want to spoil our mood and mental peace with their bitter words.
They just want to us that we put our steps backward.
So don’t worry about people they are just people so join the company of people who provide love, affection, and sincerity to your decisions and always are good advisers.
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Very true. Let go of negative people in your life.
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Absolutely because these types of people are causing toxicity in our happiness
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Yes! I did that with some so called friends.
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A friend told me this once, I always remember it when I’m stressed
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Very good advice!
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Me too! I think it was my mother who passed on this valuable nugget.
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Mothers are very wise. Thanks Chris
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So true. The conundrum is that the more i think about people, the more i think they think/talk about me. Haha. I’ve learn to create that space in my mind for other things 🙂
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If we only know how little we matter to others, we’ll stop giving them that much importance
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Absolutely true. Thanks for sharing, Sadje.💕
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My pleasure
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Truth! ❤
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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You hit the nail on the head!
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Thanks Sandy
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Welcome!
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Oh, this is true. It’s certainly good to worry less about people’s talks and focus. They might even not be talking about us when we, on the other hand and just as you’ve pointed out, keep thinking they do. Amazing. 👏
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Indeed, it’s often the case. Thanks
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Indeed. Welcome, Sadje. 😊
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It’s true–we’re not usually the center of others’ thoughts 🙂
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Nopes, only in our own minds.
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For sure 🙂
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Is very true, and a wonderfully powerful realization to have. Great share, Sadje.
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Thank you Jeff
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You’re welcome, Sadje. Always.
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Very true
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#truth
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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So very true, and something we can all benefit from remembering. 🙂
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Indeed, we all need to remember this. Thanks
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Great advice!!! So true Sadje!
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Yes, I have done it myself and felt it’s benefits
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I get wrapped up in thinking about someone and then assume they think of me as often as I think of them. I it an important lesson to learn that everyone is not like you are.
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Very true Leigha. It’s mostly in our mind.
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