
For visually challenged writers, the image shows a two-arched stone bridge stretching over a river. Traffic queues at one side waiting to cross.
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As a child, my imagination ran wild
I used to dream up impossible scenarios
Creating difficulties where none existed
Upheavals and challenges conjured from thin air
All this distress was too much to handle for me at times
So I would go to my father to seek his wise counsel
Gently and with wisdom, he would tackle my problems
One by one diminishing the mountains into molehills
One of the adages he used has stuck to me even now,
You can only cross the bridge when you’ll come to it!
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Written for KL Caley’s WritePhoto challenge this week, Bridge
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Very wise advice. The bridge is for crossing to the other side.
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It is indeed. Thanks Suzette
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Blessings and peace to you. Happy evening.
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Thanks a lot dear friend
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😊
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💛💚
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When you need a bridge, a bridge appears 🙏
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Indeed, when we need a way over to the other side, we do think of a solution
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that’s right!
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Thanks Beth.
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Your father gave wise advice! It reminds me of this quote from Hagrid- ‘What’s comin’ will come, an’ we’ll meet it when it does.’
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Thanks Shruthi. It’s the truth that we cannot plan for what hasn’t happened yet.
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This is quite beautiful and wonderful ❤
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Thank you so much Lamittan
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Feel much welcome, Sadje.
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💖
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You can only cross the bridge when you’ll come to it! (Yes)
The childhood imagination is fantastic and entertaining. Anyway, we should know the reality.
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Very true Lokesh. Thanks my friend
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That’s so wise and true. Wonderful poem, Sadje.
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Much appreciated my friend
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Is always my pleasure, Sadje. Always.
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💖💛
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There was a time I was very good at worrying about things that I thought might happen. What wasted days those were!
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I don’t think they were wasted. You learned how not to do it.
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Love that–“you can only cross the bridge when you come to it”. I need to tattoo it to my forehead (just kidding).
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Lol! It was something I learned in many years. As I grew older, I saw the wisdom in this approach
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Oh I know it’s wisdom…I’m just a slow-learner, haha! I think it’s because I had too much responsibility, too young…and I was expected to figure out what to do, solutions for everything, with no assistance. So I became a Worrier extraordinaire!
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Aww, that must’ve been very tough. Young age shouldn’t be burdened with too much responsibility and worry. Hugs.
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Thank you for your kindness, Sadje.
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You’re welcome
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Sending love and bridges for Ilya all Sadjie. Wise father … wise daughter-:)💕
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Thank you so much Cindy. You’re very kind. 💜💖
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Very wise words 🙂
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Thanks a lot Deb
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I believe we all grew up hearing that Sadje and its so nice to be reminded again..💛🙏
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Yes. That’s true.
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet and commented:
Words of Wisdom!!!
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Thanks
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I loved this post, Sadje!! Some things can only be dealt with when you confront them, for sure! 😊✨👍
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Very true Chuck. No use worrying before it happens.
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I read recently that many of us imagine scenarios to help protect ourselves from bad outcomes because we think we anticipate how to handle any situation. Unfortunately, it’s also stress and anxiety-inducing to our nervous system. We set ourselves up for failure and don’t even realize it. I was guilty of this in my childhood too.
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Very right Susi. I now ascribe to; ‘ whatever will be, will be’
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Yep, that’s the best mantra! 😉
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👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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🙂
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