There are two types of people, the doers and the thinkers. Which one are you?
Do you jump into action at the slightest nudge
Or do you sit around analyzing an issue for ages
Are you the one who acts in haste and repents at leisure
Or who never could decide what to do, when to do it
Overthinking can be counterproductive at times
But being overly zealous can have its drawbacks too
Better tread a middle ground, neither lean this way or that
There are more chances of you succeeding if you do
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Worrying is like sitting in a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn’t get you anywhere.”- Goodreads.
This week the Wednesday Challenge from partner Susan and myself is OVERTHINK.
Written for Weekly Prompts;Overthinking, hosted by Sue W and GC
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This is helpful. I think I need to adjust and perhaps work on middle ground. I take quite long analizing issues that at times I do end up time bad. Thanks for sharing this.
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Thanks Lamittan. I’m on the opposite side, too impulsive. A middle ground is the best way.
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But every region has its blessings I believe. The whether may be unfovorable but there’re certainly other good things to benefit from, isn’t that so? 😀
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Of course there’s are many good things. We have four seasons, all types of geographical locales and a wonderful variety of people and food.
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Yes, I find that a commendable thing about your place. You see? Quite some good fortune there.
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Exactly! Thanks
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Sure. You’re most welcome, my friend. 💕
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Ooh, confusion in commenting 😃this up here was meant for the other post where we’re discussing weather 🤣 Yes, a middle ground is the best way. Oh me! 😂
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Haha! I didn’t check either. 😀
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No prob though, this happens, hah. 🤗
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We need to think better (not much).
In the present, I’m an overthinker. But trying to improve. Daily writing helps a lot in this regard.
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Thanks Lokesh. Thinking better is a good term.
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I’ll try and update you on this later.
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Thanks, please do.
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Good advice, Sadje 👍🏻
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Thanks a lot Jane.
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Welcome dear Sadje.
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I’m a worrier…trying to get better
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That’s good. Worrying never helps.
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I love that Glenn Turner quote about the rocking chair! I do think a lot through things before acting…now that I am older. The younger me was a bit quick to act🙂
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I’m still very impulsive. But I think being an over-thinker is a bit of hindrance than helpful.
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I agree with you…overthinking not always productive.
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It does slows down the whole process
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Yes, that it does.
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I think I’m a little bit of both. It depends on my mood and situation- when I’m depressed or anxious, I sit and think. But when it comes to something I’m passionate for, I’m a doer!
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I think it’s a natural reaction, to think deeply when we are anxious. Thanks for sharing K.
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“Better tread a middle ground, neither lean this way or that” Wise. That’s exactly it. When I was younger, action was always a top priority for me, then as I aged, deep thinking became present. Now, I work on the balance you write of, Sadje. Awesome poem.
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That’s great Jeff. I think that talking the middle ground in most things in life is better than going to the extremes. Thanks
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You’re welcome, Sadje. Always. Ah, yes, indeed, the middle road is best, I completely agree.
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I tread the middle ground.
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That is the best, I think. Thanks for sharing
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I constantly overthink, but I’m with you all here, so perhaps I’ll train myself to accept the middle ground.
Thank you Sadje, I’m glad you joined us again 🙂
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It’s always a pleasure Sue. I have many in my family who over think to the point of making me scream! 😂
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Sometimes I overthink. But most often, I think a bit, then just make a decision and be done with it.
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Thanks for sharing Patricia! I usually act before I think things through. I need to have your approach.
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In some areas where efficiency is needed, I can make decisions quickly–grocery shopping, for example. But weighty issues…I have to ponder 🙂
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I think this is a good practical approach. Important decisions should be taken after due consideration
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I am very Intuitive. I have learned visceral reactions should be listened to. Quick decisions. Heavier decisions I get a workout in or do a good scrub and I am as right as rain.
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That is really a useful asset.
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I am all over the place; when it comes to eating a chocolate bar there is no thinking involved, the wrapper is opened even before one can blink and pop goes that delicious manna 😀
When it comes to splurging on something that looks pretty, or shopping for souvenirs, my companion can finish his lunch, dinner and I’m still thinking.
You are right a middle ground is what we need.
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Who can resist a chocolate bar for long! Expensive things should be bought after giving the decision some thought. You’re doing good Parikhit
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its never the black never the white. always the grey;. the middle ground.
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The middle ground may not be grey! Thanks
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I have the tendency to overthink but since I know that, I am able to counteract it. Not always easy but more manageable now.
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That’s good Maria that you try to counter this tendency. My husband is an over thinker and he has to take a lot of time to make any important decision. A loooong time!
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I can relate with him hehe. Please bear with us 😁
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Haha! I am for the last 36 years. 😂
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I write a list and then I do it. Is that overthinking?
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Nopes, that’s being organized
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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I analyze. No, actually I over analyze. This was very good Sadje!
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Many thanks my dear friend
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My pleasure!
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