This week the topic of WQWWC is silence

Silence is golden, say wise people. The significance of silence is most appreciated when you’re at the receiving end of a silent treatment. My late father never scolded us or got angry with any of us. He would become silent. We would rake our brains to remember what we did wrong. And when we realized where we erred, we would go to him and apologized. His silence truly said what his words never did.

My heart over flowed with words unsaid
What I felt, I could not express in mere words
Words felt inadequate to describe what I was feeling
And I couldn’t insult those feelings by using mundane words

Ever faced Those eyes which spoke volumes
Even though the lips remained silent
They begged you to understand without the need to say it aloud
And if you’ve missed the chance to listen to that silent appeal,
You will regret it for all time to come
For those lips won’t utter the words that might have
Helped you understand that pain in their heart.
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Written for; WQWWC #49 – Topic Silence hosted by Marsha
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We learn more by listening than talking 🙂
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Yes, absolutely true. Thanks Paula.
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I love sitting in silence and meditaitng
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I love doing that too. Thanks
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This is beautiful!
But they say that when you have toddler, silence means mischief😂🙃
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Thanks Ebar. Yes, it’s ominous if a toddler is silent. 😃😂
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This! Silence is golden
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Thanks a lot!
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A superb article Sadje, and wonderfully so relatable …
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Thank you so much Ivor.
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my pleasure Sadje
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❤️🙏🏼
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Silence is wonderful
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It is if not strained.
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I’m on the fence with this one. My Father used to punish us with silence. He wouldn’t speak to you for weeks. It was quite debilitating. He hasn’t spoken to my brother for 30 odd years now. I’m not a fan of silence.
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This sort of silence is hurtful in the extreme. It’s not about silence but about holding grudges.
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It certainly is
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🤗
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What a wonderful post, and ode to silence. We learn so much about ourselves and humanity when we are silent. Oh, and when I was growing up, my mom would be silent when there was an issue. We knew then…haha. 😅
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Parent in that generation used silence as a weapon. Now they use words. Thanks a lot Jeff
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Indeed, and agreed. Most welcome, Sadje. Always.
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👍🏼
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Beautiful pieces, I really liked them! It’s far more frustrating when you get the silent treatment instead of being yelled at. My mom considers it to be the best form of punishment!
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Thanks Shurthi. It is in fact worse than getting yelled at.
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Nice post! Inspiring a poem I’ll post later today! 🙂
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Thanks Joan. Do link it to this post so that I can read it too.
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Beautifully written, Sadje. Our own silence can be comforting but silent treatment can be hurtful.
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Thanks a lot Punam. Yes, very true indeed.
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You are welcome.
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❤️🙏🏼
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Beautiful post, Sadje! The intent behind silence can be as soothing as the intent behind words and vice versa.
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Thank you so much Eugi. Yes, you’re very right my friend
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Most welcome, Sadje!
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🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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I am learning to be silent and still. Trying to silence thoughts is still a challenge. I need to practise meditation more often maybe. Slowing down and being still has definitely helped me to see the beauty in life. Beautiful post
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Thank you so much! Being silent brings on clarity.
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I’m reposting this on my IG page so good
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Thanks for sharing
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“My heart over flowed with words unsaid
What I felt, I could not express in mere words
Words felt inadequate to describe what I was feeling
And I couldn’t insult those feelings by using mundane words ” Such a beautiful thought, exactly how I feel when I am emotional. Words can’t come – the feelings don’t have words. Thanks for your post, Sadje. I also love the story of your father’s reprimand. It reminds me of my grandfather. How much we love those men who DON’T use their words to show their anger or disapproval.
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Thank you so much Marsha. Yes, they were strong people. I don’t remember that my father ever said an angry word to me.
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Wow, I think I love him. My grandfather was like that but not my father.
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That’s lovely.
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Yes, as was your father. 🙂
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He was, thanks Marsha.
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Silence is precious
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Indeed, it is. Thanks
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Absolutely need more people who can control their anger
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Yes, that’s very important
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And sometimes silence is rage and disappointment that doesn’t want to hurt others. Good write, Sadje.
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Oh wow, you’ve said so well Susi.
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❤ Thank you, Sadje, for sharing it with us. 🙂
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You’re welcome my friend
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Silence can be best but can kill you inside
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Yes, you’re right that when we need to say something but don’t, it does kills something inside of us.
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Silence is genius. Somehow, it is safe to be silent for harsh words will harm others. Great sharing!
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Thank you so much!
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You’re most welcome!
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So true.
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Thanks Sheryl
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🙏🏼🙏🏼😻
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Well done Sadje!
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Thanks my friend
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