Mistakes are the greatest teachers.
Until and unless we make mistakes, we cannot learn how to do things right.
If we compare successful people to those who aren’t that successful in life, the main difference would be that those who succeed, make mistakes and then learn how not to do things like that again.
I have made many mistakes in life, like everyone else. I’m not a fast learner so I make a mistake many times before the lesson is driven home. The best lesson I learned was not to trust everyone when I made this mistake once too many times.
Someone who I thought was a good and trusted friend was the one who taught me this lesson. As she was my friend for a long time, I used to share my problems with her. But slowly I realized that she was talking to others about my issues. It took me a while but I finally figured it out and then I started keeping her at an arm’s distance.
Another mistake that taught me a valuable lesson was not to have expectations. Having expectations spoil relationships because what we expect from others is never close to what we get. Since I rectified this mistake of mine, I have improved my relationship with my siblings and immediate family. I don’t allow myself to expect them to do anything for me. If they do something kind I am very pleased and if they don’t, I am happy too.

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As always wise thoughts and experiences you have shared with us today. I completely agree with them all. Thank you for sharing, Sadje.
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Thanks a lot my friend
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You’re welcome, Sadje. Always my pleasure.
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Very good points.
Best regards,
Shira
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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Everyone makes mistakes! 🙂 Your right, making mistakes teaches us things! We learn from it!
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Thanks a lot Carol.
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Well said
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Thanks Li.
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Mistakes are the greatest teachers, Sadje. We all learn the hard way. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
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Very right my dear friend. It’s my pleasure 😇
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Amen, to learning from mistakes. I find that mistakes help me to stay humble. For it when I think too highly of myself, it is then I loose focus, and mess up. Great inspiring share Sadje.
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Thanks Suzette! You’re right when we stop watching our step, we make mistakes.
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Exactly!
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We judge ourselves by the mistakes we make, but we shouldn’t, they should be viewed as an opportunity
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You’re absolutely right Deb. Mistakes are the stepping stones for better things.
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Everyone does make mistakes, and you understand who your friends. are.
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That’s very true Diana
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Your words are true. Not having expectations of others is one I too am working on. It makes my life better.
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Thanks Lauren! Yes, not expecting anything from others, makes our life free of disappointment.
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I agree
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Mistakes definitely help us a lot if we learn from them. It’s unfortunate what happened with that friend of yours but it’s a good thing you knew about it later on.
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I agree Maria. Everything that happens to us has some lesson in it. We just need to see.
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Very profound!
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Thanks Sam. Lessons learned
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Very well said Sadje! Inspiring!
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Thanks a lot Shreya.
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You are welcome Sadje!
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Definitely important lessons to learn.
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Yes, thanks
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Excellent points, Sadje. Live and learn, as they say.
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Indeed. Thanks a lot.
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Most welcome!
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Some of those lessons hurt, but we are better for it in the long run.
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Yes, my friend, that’s very true.
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