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Welcome once again to Fandango’s Provocative Question.
I’m sure you’ve heard the expression, “Nobody’s perfect.” We all make mistakes occasionally. We say wrong things. We do wrong things. We fail. We fall. Hopefully we get up, dust ourselves off, and learn from our mistakes so that we can move on with our lives.
With that in mind, I was thinking about things, both big and small, that people can do to be better. And that leads me to today’s provocative question, which is this…
What is the one thing you would like to change about yourself? What would it be and why?
There was one thing that used to bother me a lot when I was a young mother. It made my life very difficult and I did change myself, and consequently, my life changed for the better.
What was it? You may ask!
It was my very sensitive nature. I used to get stressed out at things others took in their stride. Like displeasure from a friend or family member, money issues, or anything which was not going as I wanted it to. The result was a severe tension headache with accompanying symptoms of nausea, lose tummy, and low blood pressure.
Slowly and gradually, with the help from my family, especially my late father-in-law, I learned to be a bit more insensitive to the vibes of displeasure and annoyance from others around me. I wouldn’t say that I grew a thicker skin, but I learned to put things in their proper perspective and now I rarely, if ever get those tension headaches.
So this was what I did change! What else I’d like to change? It is just a small thing…… I would love to change my love of food, for a lackadaisical attitude towards it.
You know, when people eat only when they have to! They are picky about what they would eat and only eat to live. Unlike me, who basically lives to eat, loves most foods especially the fattening ones, like carbs, fried stuff, brownies, scones with clotted cream……. I think you got the picture.
I do realize that this is just a matter of acquiring self-control. It’s not that difficult and with persistence, I can do it.
All in all, I am happy with what I’ve achieved in the past and I think I will be able to do this too. Wish me luck!