Week 23 of Sunday Poser already here!
This week, my question is;
What is your reaction when someone is rude to you?
It’s a fact of life that not everyone is polite. Even the people who we love, or especially the people who love us!
I find it hard to swallow rudeness. If it’s someone I am not close to, I outright point out to them that whatever they want to say, can be said politely as well.
But if it’s someone I am close to, like an old friend or a family member, I feel hesitant in tackling this issue.
You may ask.
I find that sometimes it can give rise to confrontation and I am always wary of confronting my loved ones. For me, the issue rises from my personality flaw where I want to have a good relationship with my loved ones. I mostly clamp down on my irrigation to rudeness and keep silent. It is probably cowardly but I am being honest here. I hope that on reflection, they would see the error of their ways and apologize.
Sometimes I have to wait a long time for this apology.
So this is my way of dealing with rudeness.
What is yours?
Please share your thoughts in the comments section.
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